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Preparing couples for marriage

A ceremony that feels like you.

Personal wedding ceremonies and practical premarital coaching for couples who want to begin marriage with intention.

Serving Weddington, Waxhaw, South Charlotte & nearby

Abraham Smit officiating an outdoor wedding ceremony
Personal, present, and prepared.
Abraham Smit

Who you're working with

Hi, I'm Amie Smit.

I help couples build healthy, Christ-centered marriages that last long after the wedding day.

For nearly 20 years, I've served in teaching and pastoral ministry, walking alongside people through some of life's most significant seasons. I'm also a Certified SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) Facilitator, equipping engaged couples with practical tools to build a strong and lasting marriage.

My wife, Amy, and I have been married for almost 10 years, and we're raising our four-year-old son together. Marriage and family aren't only lessons I teach. I live them every day.

Whether I'm coaching an engaged couple or officiating a wedding, my goal is the same: to help you build a strong foundation before you say, "I do."

Amie

Packages & pricing

Choose how far we walk together

Every package includes a personalized ceremony. The difference is how much preparation you want leading up to the day.

Wedding packages start at $475. Share your date and I'll send full pricing.

The Ceremony

A meaningful, personal ceremony with the planning to make the day yours.

  • Wedding ceremony
  • Introduction session (Zoom or in person · 30 min)
  • Wedding planning session (Zoom · 45 min)
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The Foundation

Where preparation begins — the ceremony plus your first real look at your marriage.

  • Wedding ceremony
  • Introduction session (Zoom · 30 min)
  • Wedding planning session (Zoom · 45 min)
  • Ongoing communication (texts, calls & emails)
  • SYMBIS assessment
  • One 90-min premarital coaching session / SYMBIS feedback
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The Journey

Deeper preparation — three coaching sessions to build on before the day arrives.

  • Wedding ceremony
  • Introduction session (Zoom · 30 min)
  • Wedding planning session (Zoom · 45 min)
  • Ongoing communication (texts, calls & emails)
  • SYMBIS assessment
  • Three 60-min coaching sessions / SYMBIS feedback
  • Flexible payment options available
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The Full Journey

The complete walk — five coaching sessions for couples who want to go all in.

  • Wedding ceremony
  • Introduction session (Zoom · 30 min)
  • Wedding planning session (Zoom · 45 min)
  • Ongoing communication (texts, calls & emails)
  • SYMBIS assessment
  • Five 60-min coaching sessions / SYMBIS feedback
  • Flexible payment options available
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Not getting married with me, but want to prepare well?

Premarital Coaching — on its own

For couples who already have someone to marry them but still want to do the work before the wedding. It's SYMBIS-based, and I shape it around where the two of you actually are.

Strong Foundation

$225Starting at

For couples who want a solid foundation before marriage.

  • Complimentary 30-min discovery call
  • SYMBIS assessment (both partners)
  • Personalized SYMBIS report
  • One 90-min session to unpack your results, celebrate your strengths, spot growth areas, and set practical next steps
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Growing Together

$375Starting at

Everything in Strong Foundation, plus coaching through the conversations that matter most.

  • Everything in Strong Foundation
  • Three 60-min coaching sessions covering:
  • Communication & conflict resolution
  • Expectations, roles & responsibilities in marriage
  • Finances, family of origin & healthy boundaries
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Marriage Blueprint

$525Starting at

Everything in Strong Foundation, plus five sessions and an optional newlywed check-in.

  • Everything in Strong Foundation
  • Five 60-min coaching sessions covering:
  • Communication & conflict resolution
  • Expectations, roles & responsibilities in marriage
  • Finances, family of origin & healthy boundaries
  • Emotional & physical intimacy, friendship & connection
  • A Christ-centered marriage, shared vision & long-term goals
  • Optional complimentary 60-min newlywed check-in (within your first six months)
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Flexible payment plans available.

Let's talk

Start with your date.

Tell me a little about the day you are planning. I’ll reply within two business days to confirm availability and see whether we are a good fit.

Serving: Weddington, Waxhaw, South Charlotte & the greater Charlotte area

Email: amie@smitweddings.com

Phone: (954) 469-9861

I'll reply within two business days.